Agle Janam Mohe Bitiya Hi Ki Jo....

"Hello Sweety, Happy Womens Day!!!" the first sentence I heard when I picked up a call from Manoj.
"Hey Manoj, Thanks yaar..." I replied.

I do like such kind of pampering :) It makes u feel like u have something special within u...

Women's Day wishes r overflooding everywhere..specially on Facebook and other social networking sites. But very few of them will be really aware of why we r celebrating the same and does it really needed to celebrate the same.....Why to have one special day for Women to show their recognition...it's a need or just a fashion of celebrating a day like Valentine Day.

I will say it's not a fashion but if u look back and read some history pages u will find the reason behind celebrating the same...Yes...there was a time when women condition was really bad and they needed to raise their voice for their own protection, to live better life, to get the luxury and comfort they r righteous to i.e....to get life of "Bread and Roses".
Every year on this day...United Nations Conference recognizes the progress we have made and contribution of women in it. Scholars say The progress of Nation is Directly proportional with number of women actively participating in economic growth . If you have Well educated, self confident, Independent women in your country..no one can stop u from becoming the developed country.

And this is true also...Developement and Change needs to be started from ur home. If she is educated ,she can teach her children....tomorrows generation. It is always complementary to have educated life partner with whom u can share ur professional challenges. Todays working women are really giving helping hands to their family. I feel really lucky for getting evrything that a girl, a women should get in her life...we don't need to struggle much now for the basic rights...People have accepted that SHE has the power to change the world.

But still there is a lot that can be done for us...Yes I have a humble request for everyone of u...to show respect for all women so that Domestic Voilence, Rape Cases won't happen.

You just have to smile I am sure you will get a smile back....
She has so much of love and care in her heart. Don't break her confidence and let her enjoy freedom in her life.
If not...again the time will come and she will transform herself into "Goddess Durga" The Mother of the univers..supreme power of the supreme being.

Pioneer....The Man Having An Eagle Eye

     As usual I logged into my FB account. Nowdays social networking has become so important in our life that our govt needs to include it in our basic needs along with Food, Shelter. And it's not the exaggeration, People like checking their FB status more than checking bank account status..It might be because we are always more interested in looking into others personal things. And I am no exception to it. :)
     It didn't take much time for me to figure it out that I have got a new friend request. Wow, new friend...I navigated through that profile without wasting time and accepeted it...Yes..He was my senior from my college..Though we never met before or can hardly remember each other. The moment I accepted his request got a ping from him..

Friend: Hi
Me: Hello
Friend: do u remember me?
Me: No, not actually..but I know u r my senior(That was so stupid to say this thing as it was so obvious).
Friend: oh really..good..that means we r not complete strangers.
Me: hehe (My friends always get angry on me for this habit of mine..using words like..hmm, hehe, ok....)

There was a pause for almost 15 mins and I said...
Me: Hey I really liked ur profile (Didn't get anything other than that to proceed our conversation. He has done his MBA degree from a reputed college and chosen to go into enterpreneurship instead of doing a job)
Friend: Hey Thanks :) I wanted to open my own college. There are blah blah blah(don't remember figure) MBA colleges in Maharashtra but only few of them are really good and provides proper grooming on management skills of a student.  Nowdays doing MBA has become a fad and even students don't know why they are taking this degree..If u r going to be a manager there comes a bounded responsibility on u and u should be welll aware of that.
Me: Yeah, thats true( What else I can say)
Friend: Do u have any plans to go for MBA?
Me: No..I wanted to but couldn't manage to score well and get into good college so just skipped it now. :(
Friend: ok..thats fine..I will suggest to do part time if possible..at least u will get some knowledge about management terms.
Me: hmm..will see.

Again a pause for 5 mins.
Me: Hey, why did u choose this field..I mean not to do job and go for ur own business.
Friend: Ma'am what do u think...Doing job is better than doing business?
Me: no..I don't mean that (You should always be careful while talking wid ur seniors..miscommunication leads to misunderstandings.)
Friend: See..This is what I really wanted to do in my life..n yes I did job also..I worked for a reputed company for 2 yrs...learned the skills and now walking on the path made for me.
Me: wow...u r truely ambitious.good
Friend: Thanks :) (everyone likes to hear Compliments)
Me: so u r going to be an Enterpreneur..gr8..good that I have accepeted ur friend request...it's a add on in my contact list :P
Friend: Enterpreneur..OMG...lets see..what is wriiten in my destiny and how much can I achieve. But yes I know one day I will achieve what I have dreamed of.
Me: Wish u all the best my Friend. You will definitely.
Friend: Thanks Ma'am..chalo bbye..it's time for dinner now
Me: yeah..gn..nice talking with u..bye

He went offline just after that and I was still thinking of him and his dream...Really we find very few people who has courage to give up the luxrious llife and choose a rough path for their dream. And they only deserve true appreciation, called as an Enterpreneur. The Pioneer!!!!

Prema tuza rang kasa

Prem....kiti sundar kalpana aahe.
Aaiche prem, Mitrache prem, Bhavandanche prem, Jodidaarache prem...kititari rupe aahet hya premachi.
Ani manus ha nehmi premacha bhukelach asto..Lahanpani Aai Vadil Bhau bahiniche prem...shalet collegemadhe gelyavar mitra maitrininche prem  ani tarunyat alyavar haluch navi swapna dakhvnar jodidarach prem!!!

Mantarlele Divas...

"Hi Mimi", The voice startled me.
Mrs. Nene: Where is your Mumma, Go and call her. I have to tell her a top news. (as she moved into the kitchen  searching for my mother.)
I: Aunty, mom is not at home. Will be back in half an hour.
Mrs Nene: Oh, no problem sweety, I will be back after half an hour. Tell your Mumma that she will be more than happy after hearing this news.
I:(Does she really have such a great news, otherwise as usual..she will come with some stupid news telling how my neighbours were fighting with each other.)

After one hour:
Mrs Nene: Hello Mrs. Sathe, "Aho eikal ka? I have searched a groom for our Mimi"

I was more than shocked after hearing the news. Are my parents really thinking for my marriage so soon.
I just completed my B.E one year back.
The only thought of marriage has taken me back to my college days.

My parents were crying when I was leaving the home for the first time. i took admission in Govt Engineering college Mumbai.Even tears rolled down my face as the thought of staying away from  parents made me feel unconfortable. Dad came with me and he left in 2 days shifting me to a private hostel in mumbai.On the very first day only I met Vinita, from mumbai and Arartrika from Kolkata. Arartrika was also staying in the same hostel as of mine.

Our Mechanics professor introduced our whole batch with the student committe and announced that we will be having freshers party next week.Wow, our faced shined with smile. Being from small town I had never attended any night party before this. The only celebration was School/Jr College cultural festival but that never exteded after 6 PM :)
Freshers party was full of enjoyment. Got so many friends there only and finally we were a big Gang. Our classes started . Initially we all were attending classes like going in a primary school. but eventually it all decreased and till the time third year came only Geeks used to be there in the classes as the representative.

College events, sports and other activities were more than enough to keep busy our gang. In the same time Arartrika met Ranjan and was always busy talking on phone with him.Relationships in college days also have a special touch.I still remember in the second year of my college, my classmate had a serious fight with senior batchmate and that too for a girl. Thankfully these kind of fights don't sustain for long time.

Semister exams come like enemy in college life. But, only people on whom we people used pass comments for the whole semester come for our help. For knowing the books, syllabus, and teaching the concepts also.
"Yaar, bus paasing marks aa jaye.." . This is the most frequent sentence that you can hear in exam days.
One of my friend was so irritated with the bulky reference books that she announced in my group that soon she will be having a book telling how to get to 40% "If only 5 pointers are sufficient for the passing then what is the use of reading such a heavy book.", she used to say.

Collge placements are one of the turning point.That time only we realized why poiters do matter.We missed so many companies interview because of not fulfilling the criteria. But again t's like a lucky draw..If you are lucky enough then no one can stop you getting into that company.Whatever was the situation, but yes we all got placed in good compaies. That was really a proud moment for all of us.

How 4 years passed we didn't even realized. How deeply we all were attached to each other come to know by the time we have to leave the college. Send off event is most emotiona and sensible event. We all were almost crying.

Huh......But all these are only memories now.
I am no more a college girl now. And will get marry within a year.
But yes college days becomes the most memorable days in your life...They will surely give a lifetime friends.
I felt like meeting all my friends again. I decided to plan a get together very soon.

Till the time I came out of my thought process Mom and Mrs Nene finished their talk and they decided to meet the family of that boy.
"Lagnala Bolavshil ga tuzya saglya mitra maitrinina",Mom said to me as Mrs. Nene left.
I just smiled.